Love or Hate?

There’s one choice you can make in this life.

 

Will you chose the path of love or hate?

 

You create your reality. If your desires aren’t aligned with your heart then people get hurt. If you want to punish yourself you attract negative situations. Why do we feel we have to sink into our own self-pity? We are the only ones who block ourselves from the lives we truly desire. We believe we aren’t good enough to deserve something, we could never have the life we want? We manifest the outcome, WE have the power. Your thoughts create your reality, they turn you into the person you are. They are so powerful. So why do we often turn to such negative self-talk? Happiness is your choice to make, it sounds so easy, and it is THAT simple. But we complicate things, we veer off course, we put up road blocks. When you are stuck, you chose it, you need to figure out what it is you do not want to face in yourself.  Fucking face that shit! NOW is the time to get moving. Things are changing, things are happening. Do not chose the easy path, the comfortable one. This is the path of hate, chose love.  It is really that simple. There are all these common beliefs, ways you should live, things you need to do. Find the beliefs that resonate within you. You make your choices. Don’t look to others to walk your path for you.

Why do you feel stuck? What things are holding you back? Face yourself. In the words of Mastisyahu, “Lose your backpack filled with sand”. Pull yourself up. Negative thoughts are easy, distracting. Sometimes it’s easier to feel stuck then move with the currents of change. You don’t need to pull that weight. Pull yourself out of the darkness, for it is the darkness you yourself creates

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There’s things you wish you did, didn’t do. Cut ties from the past, move on, because opportunities come in the future to re-write these situations. You didn’t do all the growth you should have, thought you were ready for. Fine, then use the next opportunity that comes to make the growth happen. The worst feeling you can feel is regret. It blocks you. Know that you were doing your best in the situation that you knew how to at the time. Learn and use the feeling to act the way you truly desire in the next situation. Life is all about growing, trudging through the shit, and coming out wiser on the other side.

Let go of these negative patterns. Break through the old and into the new. Believe in yourself, and know that your purpose awaits you. You are here to make a difference. And everyone, including yourself, deserves to see that happen.  The times when it is the hardest to choose the higher path, is when it is the most needed, when the most change will happen. You don’t want to live this way, then stop living this way. YOU are the compass. We all stumble, it’s about finding the light that shines through the darkness. It’s about how you deal with mess ups. A friend told me, things get really bad before they get good, and it’s about how you deal with it all that will decide what comes out of it.

 

What path will you chose?